Molly's Story.....
Our little angel is finally here!! She is such a blessing in our lives. We love her so much!!! Here's her story of her arrival.
Our little angel is finally here!! She is such a blessing in our lives. We love her so much!!! Here's her story of her arrival.
Sunday, September 11:
Contractions off and on all day. Very irregular. Some more painful than others.
11pm:
Very painful contractions, every 8-10 minutes that lasted 1:30 to 4 minutes long. Body shakes when contractions were so intense it was hard not to yell. (Ok, so maybe I yelled a little.) I knew shaking was a sign of labor, and had no idea if or how far dilated I was since I hadn't seen my dr. since the previous Tuesday (when I was not dilated at all) and had been having contractions off and on all weekend. This made me pretty nervous that she could possibly come in a hurry. (I've heard too many horror stories!!) I decided that I wanted to go the hospital to at least get checked out, even if they sent me back home. I knew I would just feel better knowing how far dilated I was.
Monday, September 12:
We got to Labor and Delivery around 1:15 am, and found out that I was only dilated to a 1.5. We walked around the hospital for an hour and by that time I was a 2.5. They told us I was in early labor, but not quite ready yet. They asked if I wanted to go home for a few hours, try and get some sleep, and come back later. Yeah, right. Not gonna happen, lady. I'm already here, and can't hardly walk to the bathroom, let alone get in the car and drive home. They gave me some sort of sleeping pill so I could get some rest, and said they would check back in 2 hours. That sleeping pill was pointless!! It just made me drowsy, but my contractions were so intense I would wake up and yell for 2 minutes straight, close my eyes for 2 minutes, and wake up again. This was getting miserable.
5:00am:
The nurse comes to check me again, and by this point I'm dilated to a 4. It was time to get me a room, and some drugs. (Finally!!!) I had really hoped to make it to a 5 before getting my epidural, for fear of slowing down progression, but at this point I just wanted some sort of drug to at least take the edge off. I was brought into my room and my nurse immediately started hooking me up to fetal monitors, drawing blood, and got my IV started. I have a bruise on my right arm the size of a beer can that was black and blue from the get go. I'm not really sure if this was from trying to draw blood or get an IV started. David was amazed that I wasn't reacting to this at all. Apparently she tried 4 times on that one spot to do whatever it was that she needed to do. My IV ended up being on the other arm, just below my elbow crease. All the other nurses commented on what a crappy spot that was to have an IV. It was the only place they could find a vein that was big enough to work. I'm still amazed that they were able to do all this through my shaking and contractions. I was oblivious.
6:00:
As soon as the nurses were done with the IV, the anesthesiologists were waiting at the door to give me my epidural. I was worried about having a contraction and shaking while they were trying to put it in. I actually had two contractions back to back at one point, and they waited until it was over before they started. David took this picture of me while they were working on me.
I think the only reason I was able to smile was because I knew relief was in not far away. Once they were finished placing the epidural, the nurses checked me again. Now I was dilated to a 5. Thank god! Things were still progressing, and better yet, I made it to a 5 to get my epidural!! Wahoo!!! At this point I was finally able to get some sleep.
10:00:
Still dilated to a 5. According to the monitors I was still having contractions like when I came in, just not as consistently. Time for a small amount of Pitocen to pick up the contractions.
1:00:
My doctor comes to check on me on her lunch break. Still dilated to a 5. Time for a little more Pitocen. Then the nurses notice that I have a fever. This is something that they want to keep an eye on, as a fever is a sign of infection.
3:30:
The baby's heart rate kept dropping every 30 to 60 minutes for about 5 to 10 seconds, and then would come right back up. This was a little worrisome to me, but the nurses were keeping an eye on it. Sometimes they would move me and her heart rate would go right back to normal. They thought maybe she was squishing the cord somehow. My doctor had another patient in labor and the other hospital in vancouver (about 15 minutes away), and that labor is progressing very fast. She told us that she was going to go deliver the other baby real quick, and then come back, but her partner, who was on call, will be arriving any minute just in case I need him. (Which all of us highly doubted at this point.) She also tells us that since I have a fever, the baby will need to go the NICU and be put on antibiotics. This means that she won't be with us for a couple of hours. After talking with her, we were ok with this. (Not that we really had a choice.)
5:00:
Dr. Farber (the partner of my dr.) comes in to talk to us. It's always a little scary when a dr. comes in, sits down, and tells you that we need to talk. This was right after the baby's heart rate had dropped way down, for about 30 seconds, and a bunch of dr.'s and nurses rushed in to see what was going on. He told us that because of the possibility of infection, and the rapid drop of the baby's heart rate, that we need to start thinking about getting her out. He said that we could sit here for another 2 hours waiting for more progression, but if so, and there was no progression, that we would most likely need to do an emergency c-section. He did not recommend this. Basically, we needed to do a c-section for the safety of the baby. He gave us a couple minutes to talk about it (which was a couple minutes of me crying about it). Just then, my dr. was back and came in to talk to us. She basically told us the same thing. It was obvious that this was going to happen eventually, so we decided it was better to be prepared and ready that to wait longer and risk not being ready to go.
5:15:
We told the dr's that we were ready to do the c-section, and they went into action immediately. They already had an OR ready and waiting for us. I was a little upset at the time that I wouldn't have the birth experience that I had been hoping for the past few months, but after all was said and done, now I'm ok with everything. I still experienced labor, getting an epidural, and brought home my precious baby girl. She just didn't come out that way I had hoped.
5:49:
As the doctors made the incision and opened me up, a little head popped right out to great the world. Molly Caroline Parsons was born at 5:49 pm.
She weighed 6 pounds 6 ounces, and was 21.5 inches long!!!
She went off to the NICU to get her antibiotics and David was able to go with her. I was falling asleep and they stitched me back up, and then I was off to a recovery room for about an hour. Since David was with Molly, my mom was able to come in the recovery room with me to keep me calm and keep me company.
7:45:
After and hour in the recovery room, my nurse took me to Molly's room in the NICU so I could see her and finally hold my baby girl.
After holding her for a few minutes, I went back to my room for some much needed rest. The next morning David took me down to Molly's room to see her again.
She ended up being in the NICU for 48 hours before she was able to come into my room and be with us full time. Apparently the hospital has a new policy about newborns that are put on antibiotics being in the NICU for 48 hours. Some of the nurses weren't too sure about what the policy was, it was that new. She was able to come over to my room with her IV, which they said wasn't really supposed to happen, but they did it anyway. Here are some more pictures of our little sweet pea, Miss Molly Caroline.















